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Collection Summary
Collection: FND001 - SHSND Foundation - North Dakota Heritage Family Memorial Program
Series: Tribute
Folder: DIG
Item: 271439
Title: Jay J. Spethman
Date: 1/25/1952-1/24/2025
Creator:
Inscription/Marks: 1/25/1952
Summary: Jay J. Spethman, 72, of Killdeer, ND, entered his heavenly home on January 24, 2025, one day short of his 73rd birthday. Funeral services were held January 31, 2025, at the High Plains Cultural Center in Killdeer with Pastor Jim Steckler officiating. Burial was in the Manning cemetery with full military honors. Jay was born on January 25, 1952, the son of Clark and Fern (Alexander) Spethman. He spent a lot of his time working on the family ranch, running the stock for the Spethman Rodeo Co. He also participated in the rodeo by riding, bareback, saddle bronc and bull riding. The Amidon Rodeo Arena is named after his father, Clark Spethman. Jay was drafted into the US Navy (1971-1975) with the Seabee’s Construction Battalion for four years. In 1976, he met the love of his life, Joan Karey. Jay and Joan were married on July 7, 1978. They had two children, Joel (Nikki) and Jodi (Jordan) Staloch. Jay owned his business, Spethman & Son Carpentry, and spent many years working in construction. He was always ready to help anyone in need of repairs. The best decision Jay ever made was to accept Jesus into his life. He was always ready and willing to share Jesus with anyone and everyone. His kind heart and loving nature will be truly missed by all who knew him. At Hill Top Home, he was known lovingly as “Uncle Jay.” As a handyman, he wore many hats, figuratively and literally. He was also known for his unique caps. Jay is survived by his wife, Joan; children, Joel (Nikki) Spethman and Jodi (Jordan) Staloch; four grandchildren, Deklen and Easton J. Staloch, Tenisyn and Corvan Spethman; sister, Kay Reiten, of Washington; brother, Duane (Cynthia) Spethman, of Montana; several of Joan’s sisters and brothers and their spouses; and numerous nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his parents, Clark and Fern Spethman; Joan’s parents, Roy and Agnes Karey; brother, Dale (Dude) Spethman; brothers-in-law, Duane (Red) Schaff, Dan Steckler and Pete Reiten; grandson, Payson Spethman.
Red ID: FND_I_78929 Image ID: 520854 Image Notes: FND001 271439

Collection: FND001 Digitized Images from Collection
Title: SHSND Foundation - North Dakota Heritage Family Memorial Program
Date: -

Summary: The North Dakota Heritage Family Memorial Program is sponsored by the North Dakota Funeral Directors Association. The life stories of deceased North Dakotans are featured in an archvied collection. Current partners in the project are Eastgate Funeral & Cremation Services, Bismarck Evans Funeral Homes, Carrington and New Rockford Everson-Coughlin Funeral Home, Williston Fulkerson Funeral Home, Tioga Fulkerson Funeral Home, Watford City Fulkerson Stevenson Funeral Home, Williston Nero Funeral Home, Bottineau Parkway Funeral Service, Bismarck Springan Stevenson Funeral Home, Stanley Stevenson Funeral Home, Dickinson These funeral homes provide recent obituaries to the Foundation, where staff and volunteers format, edit and archive each memorial. The memorials are posted, and copies are sent to the family for their input and approval. The listing currently features more than 13,000 memorials, and is constantly updated as new memorials and histories are received.

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